It is very clear that moving to another city or moving across country means much more than adapting to a new living space, you will have to adapt to a new city; is the necessity to find your feet in a new situation that involves meeting new people at work, make new friends (if you don’t know a single soul out there), getting acquainted with the streets and locations, get to know your neighbors, the whole setting can be a little nerve-wracking, even more if you are not in love with the city. These are a few things that I want to warn you so after you move out you can see it’s totally normal what is happening to you.
I mean, it’s not like you’re going to be there for a week or two, you are about to start a new chapter of your life, an excited one I may say, and as scary as it is, I think that it’s important that we continuously put ourselves in situations like this, because every city might have its ups and downs, still you will learn how to handle the situation…..if you keep reading.
Here’s how you can adapt to a new city (but you can always find your own ways):
1. Get the Lay of the Land
Just as when a person gets a new job, and goes around the building seeing where everything is, identifying every room, etc. you would have to explore the area, and we are not asking you to walk around the township, you can always make use of the internet to find some of the best places to eat, have a drink on a Friday night, go to the movies, excercise. Still, have in mind that you won’t get adapted to the city or the people by sitting at home checking out places.
2. Have an Initiative
The next step perhaps, may be meeting the local people. As I’ve always believed: One must always know how to adapt to a situation, not the other way around. What I mean with this is that if you have the opportunity to get out of the house, take it, strangers won’t come by your door and ask you to do something fun.
Go out and eat lunch by yourself, these days there are so many restaurants with communal tables where it’s so easy to start a conversation with others; ask them about the city, or if they may suggest some place where you can buy ‘something’ (even though you have already goggled it). You don’t have to try so hard you know, basically you’ll just have to NOT BE AT HOME THE WHOLE DAY.
3. Set Free your Expectation
Expectations are good, some of the times they are surpassed, but most of the times they just leave you with a low-key perspective of a situation and a little discouraged. Perhaps you have an idea or thoughts of how your life is going to be from that moment, and chances are that it will be that way. This doesn’t mean that your new life is gonna suck, but you have to accept that your life in a new city will not be the same as the one you had. Go with the flow, you should stop thinking about the future – “What will happen next?”, and more, you must stop thinking about what you left in order to enjoy what you have right now.
4. Go Out With Your Colleagues
Work is an exceptional place to meet new people, and further, you will not have to worry about taking the first step, usually the boss or senior employee will introduce the new member to the team and welcome him/her. Chances are you might be invited for a beer after work; when this happens, don’t step back. It is a great opportunity to make friends since everyone is at their full “released side” and you may feel comfortable the next day you get to work (of course as soon as you haven’t done something shameful last night).
Seriously, don’t stress about it. Enjoy the wonders of moving to a new city, because it involves for you to get out of your comfort zone, and when that happens you are able to discover that you can always go further.
Thanks for reading us! Neighbors Moving and Storage finds amazing the opportunities that life gives everyone to open their mind into new experiences and moving out is one of them.
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